TS,
Eli is a very young man yet, early elementary age from what I recall, so it might be a few years before he is wanting to delve into SW forums. Ofcourse any youngster is welcome here as are his or her parents, but they have slightly larger issues to deal with for now I am guessing. I did get a very nice message from his mother and she is extremely appreciative of all of this that part I do know.
As far as any monies we raise here for Eli, that is subject to change from either shipping funds or toys of some nature in themselves. AFE can ofcourse elaborate, but he is in close communication with the family and as he has eleven boxes of toys to deliver I am just assuming the current monies will be geared towards getting those boxes there.