Darthgirl,
I think a lot of us can relate to you with similar situations when we were all younger. Fortunately, I just found friends with similar tastes and interests. You'll find some. They're out there. In my old neighborhood a lot of the kids played music instruments and were in orchestra or band. A lot got into gangs, drugs, and stuff. I'm the only one from my old neighborhood that continued to play after junior high. Now, I have a bachelors and masters in music eduction and have a successful high school music program. In my free time, I make time for this wonderful hobby and share it one this site with some great artists. Good luck to you.
Joe